One child is goal oriented. She spends her days thriving to achieve only the best, goals and deadlines are real. Measuring up, proving one's self, only the best, failure isn't welcomed, a perception of whats commendable and noteworthy and ahhh the joy of success. Having a perception of what isn't up to standard and how could one be even remotely happy with that. In all of this, if there is some laughter and enjoyment then its perfect.The other lives her life for experiences. Shared togetherness, fun, laughter, artistic creativity, people, places, music, her goal is to live and love. In all of this lets mix in a little bit of achievement but whats more important is that she enjoyed it. Two opposites for sure. At my age Ive come to realize (wisdom should take credit here) that a little bit of both with the former relenting to the latter and God being the ultimate focus and guide is key to real JOY and peace . Not happiness, JOY. Thats all one really needs.
Toodles
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